I will have a side of oranges with my anxiety, please

A lot of life circumstances can seem overwhelming sometimes. Illness, job security, physical moves, day-to-day responsibilities and I am sure we can all fill in our own blanks. I have found myself struggling with a bit of anxiety lately. I seem to muddle through fine and then, ahem, a certain hormonal time of month will …

How do YOU get to the center of a Tootsie Roll Pop?

One of my favorite childhood commercials in the 1970s was the Tootsie Roll Pop.  I liked the one where the little boy asked both Mr. Turtle and Mr. Owl, “How many licks does it takes to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop?” As far as I can tell, these catchy Tootsie Roll Pop commercials date back to the …

Guess who is coming for cake…( Part Two)

The moment my body slid across the hard ground bulging with the tree’s exposed roots, I remembered I was pregnant. My hand reached down to cradle my sweet girl growing inside my now very bruised and contraction-riddled belly. I hopped up, adrenaline coursing through my body and my brain racing a mile a minute. All …

Guess who is coming for cake

It was the 19th of October, Yorktown Day (for any of you history buffs out there). I was pregnant with my ninth child, entering my seventh month. Since I had already experienced numerous pregnancies, just picture me with a belly of an elephant pregnant in the, oh, let’s say 16th month. David was leading a …

I said, “Put your hands in the air!”

It was an unusually hot, late, fall day in 1998.  I was very pregnant with my sixth child, my daughter Phoebe.  I was taking a day trip with the kiddos from Richmond, VA to visit my parents in Yorktown.  Starting our slightly-over-an- hour journey, we decided to swing through the McDonald’s drive-thru for lunch. Our …

Sometimes we have dreams; we have just forgotten them

I was talking to my son this morning when he proudly announced he didn’t have any dreams last night. I explained that he most certainly did have dreams; he had just forgotten them. I told him, “Everybody dreams; we just don’t always remember them when we wake up. Sometimes we need to make a conscious …